Grateful for the FIRE!!!

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In life we will inevitably go through difficult times like a divorce, loss of a loved one, loss of a job, sickness, legal issues, tough time during marriage, infertility and so many other trials we could name. However, as we go through those trying times, or what we are calling the FIRE, you are being refined. It is a preparation for the greater that is to come. Those impurities of self doubt, broken hearts, fear, brokenness…are being burned away. Just like like the refinement of gold process. The metal goes through the FIRE to remove impurities to come out GOLD….this gold after its refinement process is worth a LOT! The purer, the more refined the gold is the greater the worth! Glory!!!

Every trial, every negative situation, not only does God mean it for your good, you are coming out better, stronger, wiser…purer and more refined! Your value increases and you are better prepared for your GREATER!

So today, and every day, don’t forget to Bless God for the FIRE! It will be difficult and it isn’t always easy to think about your increased value and how much better you will be after you go through. However, do your best to be intentional in writing down what impurities will be burned away as you go through! Because in the end your value will increase and you will come out GOLD!!!

5 Keys to Focus on #LivingLifeGratefully

Living Life GratefulHave you ever been working on a project, reading a book, writing, etc and then all of sudden mess up something? It is in that moment you’ve lost your focus…you became distracted. Either social media, phone calls, or thoughts, something has pulled your focus away and while you may still be doing what you were distracted from, your mind isn’t focused on it…therefore a mistake may occur.

While on this journey of #LivingLifeGratefully, you must focus on all the positive things in your daily life. Bad things will happen, people will say awful things to you or make you feel bad…sometimes that person that makes you feel bad is you. Those negative thoughts that have been planted may raise its ugly head reminding you of some mistake or imperfection. It is during those times we suggest you do the following:

1) Have a scripture that feeds your spirit positively. ex: Psalms 139:14  –  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well or 1 John 4:4b because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.

2) Create and keep near post it notes with positive feedback or quotes. We call them #gratefulnotes

3) Call upon those positive friends/family members that never fail to give you an encouraging word.

4) Focus on all of the great things that are in your life and in every situation.

5) Pray and spend time with God.

For some of us it is easy to focus on the aforementioned items and/or any positive things in our lives. But for others it is a fight. We want to encourage you to fight on.  We are right along side you…fighting with you! This journey of #LivingLifeGratefully isn’t easy, but it is so worth it. God wants us to have a life filled with His Peace and His Joy. He told us in His Word that this wouldn’t be easy, but that His yoke is easy and His burdens are light. We are to trust Him to deal with the negative things in our lives. But we must also be actively focusing on the positive things in our lives to achieve the goal of #LivingLifeGratefully! You deserve a life filled with unspeakable joy and it is our hope that you believe that you deserve it!

There are so many more items we could have shared, but we want to hear from our Team Grateful community! What are some of the things you do to focus on the positive? Or, let us know if you need prayer and/or help in this area. We will pray with and for you.  We are believing God for His very best for you and know that you have the tools to handle it…for you are Fearfully and Wonderfully made by God!

Self Love – Day of Love

Self LoveMany people around the world, especially couples, celebrate this Day of Love or Valentine’s Day! One of the best ways to #LivingLifeGratefully is to love and see yourself as God sees and loves you! He loves us with a forgiving, graceful and merciful heart.

When we are at our best or at our worst, when we get it right or mess it all up…He Still LOVES us unconditionally!  Imagine if you loved yourself the same way.  The liberty in loving yourself through all of the good and the bad can bring a ton of freedom from negative thoughts or self doubt.  Everyday would be like walking on Cloud 9.  Your perspective on life would be viewed differently.  You will have more compassion for others.  In fact, loving yourself unconditionally opens up your heart to love others the same.  You will attract the very same energy back to you…unconditional love!

Today, take a moment to love on you. Self love is essential to self care, it is not selfish. Self love is actually the best thing you can do not only for yourself but every one that comes into your life! You deserve to unconditionally love yourself!  So, start today by looking in the mirror and say “I love you unconditionally, with all of your faults and with all of your positives, you are still worthy of my love”.   And watch how much joy and gratitude will invade your spirit!  Happy Love Day!